My Perfect Lover..I’ve Been Tagged!
I have been tagged by Dark Chocolate!
So, here’s My ‘Perfect Lover’: (see if there’s a resemblence to my HUBBY ;P )
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Gender: to qualify the tittle "HUBBY" one must be a GUY!!
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Religious: important factor on building a happy family. In Islam this comes 1st when seeking for a life partner. Not looking for someone who are "OVER OBSESSED" with Islam, just someone who knows enough to lead our family based on Islam as the way of life.
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Resourceful: Not many want this criteria but since I know I’m not up-to-date with the world, at least my partner can help fill me the details to help me up-to-date with the world.. just like my hubby.. learned a lot from him..
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Independent: Wouldn’t want to have him depending on you all the time, now, do you? I’m used to be independent since primary school, I need someone that I can rely on and depend on somtimes.. no matter how independent I may be, there are times when I need to depend on others as well..
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Firm Stand: This is actually a MUST!! Without a firm stand, I will be more than a handful to handle. Hubby knows that I am constantly "testing-the-waters-for-alligators". I know my limits.. but sometimes I just want to try my luck. Without this also, one can easily be manipulated by me. The other way to avoid my "manipulation" influence is not to expose your weakness to me.. sometimes, I really have no intention to manipulate people..
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Responsible: the word speak for itself.
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Loving: love me because of me, not because of who I am or what I can give you.. also, to love me more than I love him.. a dream come true to have someone to love and be loved till the day you die.. hope my hubby feels the same way too..
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Fair: this is one of the "hard-to-get" criteria in men nowadays. Not that I asked to be treated equally with other men.. it is more like the things we’re sharing, in relation to our parents and time allocation for them, household chores.. things like that.. eventhough sometimes life is not fair to us, at lease be fair to me once in a while la..
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All-in-One: what can I say?? A shoulder to cry on when I’m sad, a best friend to share my thoughts and happiness, a husband to spend my whole life with and appreciate all the things I’ve done for him, a lover to heal the pains and scars of the past and shower me with his love and kisses.. someone to be there for me when I need him as how I will be there for him when he needs me..
There, some basic criteria of a perfect lover according to me. Now, I will tag Menod and Doren. My other friends do not have any blogs..
Happy drafting… hahahaha.. took me quite sometime to write eventhough I already have a hubby as a baseline of a perfect lover…
June 12th, 2006 at 1:55 am
Hey dude.
It’s done.
You can find my tagged answers at:
http://uunikk.blogspot.com/2006/06/my-perfect-lover.html
Enjoy!